About that last post. Jess and I are feeling alot better. In part because Arthur has been back to his normal loving self all day, but also because that was a feeling we felt and aren't as much now. My mother and Jessica's Aunt Nance, after reading the post, also gave us some wonderful motherly advice and support. I hope Nance doesn't mind me sharing some hers it here:
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"Part of the joy (and sometimes sorrow) of being a parent is watching your kids turn into different people as they grow up and develop and learn about the world they want to be in. What's fascinating is not knowing who that person is going to be eventually... I can say, though, that generally kids turn out better than you could ever imagine, especially if they know they are loved and will always be safe with you."
"After Art has one of his crazy moments and knows he's made you mad and then feels really bad about it, talk to him about how he's feeling and let him know that you're not going to leave him to figure this out on his own. Don't make a huge deal, but let him know that he hasn't disappointed you and that you understand not everyone can always be perfect and that you're all there to help each other get through each other's difficult times."
And don't worry about losing that sweet Art. He'll be back and be more wonderful each time."
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